The Problem Of Mindset

Hey, everyone there, today I do not just want you to read this blog but I also want you to develop your mindset with this blog!

I want to start with a couple of stories, imagine that you and your sister are going to the market and as you know, there are many people in the market. Some people said, “Is she your girlfriend?” some said, “She is hot” and at last you end up fighting with those people. Your anger burst into fighting but have you ever noticed what would your sister be thinking? Is she feeling safe in this world? Now as this all happened, would she ever visit market ALONE? Keep these questions in your mind.

Next one, imagine that you are a really pretty celebrity and your new movie came, you did al lot of hard work in the movie, you think of a lot of success but you get trolled by a particular look that didn’t suit you. Now think that if your parents are using social media and they see that you are being trolled and there are such bad comments then what would they feel?

Now imagine that you are a boy, you are in a relationship and for a reason your relationship breaks, and now you both are alone. Now you will start finding reasons to oppress the girl but is that right? Have you ever think what would the girl feel? Bro you care about your feelings and you care about nothing.

In all these stories, you will find something similar that “all the time a girl needs to suffer because of that one mindset which transforms into millions of mindsets just because of rumors and social media”.

When we talk about reality,

Rape is the fourth most common crime against women in India. 24,923 rape cases were reported across India in 2012, which is a HUGE amount. This is shameful and we feel proud that we are Indians.

There are more cases like dowry. 8233 dowry death cases were reported across India in 2012. When people are getting married, are they marring the daughter of the house? Alternatively, are they taking all the valuable things they need? In addition, if there is no dowry in the marriage then the female have to suffer from the bad behavior from her house until her death.

Can we imagine how rude we are? This does not end here.

When a girl wears a short dress, people say she does not have manners or she is immature. Whose mindset is this?

When a girl gets raped people run away from the girl and not from the people who are doing it. Why?

We see home violence every day, Male comes up drinking alcohol and end up fighting with their wife. Who will give them justice why cannot they go to court?

Today, women cannot go out in the night. Just because people cannot control lusty eyes. They do not see if a girl is poor and if she is doing work to earn money for her family. They just attack her, what a country is this?

We see all these injustice with women and we get to hear that “GOOD DAYS ARE COMING” or “NOW THERE WILL BE JUSTICE”. How much more time will it need?

All these are questions and they will remain questions until we will find someone who can find answers to them. However, how much will we have to wait for the answers…?

We do not have to wait for the answers, we will have to make answers which will change the mindsets of people and which will create safe spaces for not only the females but for everyone.

Nowhere is written that if someone drinks and beat his wife will become normal after beating her.

Nowhere is written that playing with someone’s feelings is a game and we will have fun playing that game.

Nowhere is written that females are weak and they cannot fight with the males.

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In the end, I want to say that everything can change; women can live their lives, as they want we need to just change the mindsets of people. We need to make people aware, we have to start with one person and then it will change to the hundreds and millions. However, before that let us make sure that we will be with all the females helping them, keep them away from all these bad activities, and make them courageous so that they can fight for their future. Start with one it will transform into millions of mindsets…